Saturday, December 03, 2005

Dislike by Definition

To Dislike Someone Through Association: When you meet someone, but haven't spent enough time with them in order to say you like them or not. Then you hear rumours from someone that this is not a nice person and all of a sudden you start to notice they're a little bit rude, they talk about themselves too much, they kind of snubbed you a bit there. Suddenly someone who should have gotten a fair chance is labeled unfairly because of a bad rumour.

To Dislike Someone Through Spite: When you initially meet someone and are in competition with them for something. It could be grades, it could be that you want the same boy/girl, it could be anything really. They are fighting for the same thing you want, and you hate that. Suddenly someone who could have been a very nice person under different conditions is labeled unfairly.

Neither of these situations applies here.

I'm screaming and scratching inside, but my outside is cool and collected. I feel like I'm constantly holding my breath, and one of these days my screams of frustration will burst out of my lungs. Manipulative people are hard to see through, but come on people! Am I the only person who sees the giant rattlesnake in the room?

What do you do when someone you love loves someone you hate?

4 comments:

Miss.Emily said...

VANIER CHAMPS, BABY, WOOOOT! GO HAWKS GO!

Anonymous said...

YEAHHHH EM.... WAY TO QUOTE YOUR OWN BLOG ON SOMETHING UNRELATED.... ps i love you and your trips to the booze store, and your random nights out when we both should be in studying.


hahahahahaaha... see you in a bit.

***lay

Miss.Emily said...

HAHA, I felt that I should mention the VANIER CHAMPS but in a more subtle way.... hence the totally unrelated comment, LOL! See you tonight,

-Emmy

~Kelly~ said...

You continually hold your breath and remain cool and collected until their relationship runs its course. You can't push it because you could end up pushing him away. Just be strong.. you know it will eventually work it's self out